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Designing Divine Systems That Work for You
There was a time when the word system made me tighten up inside. It sounded rigid, controlling, and anything but sacred. But as I’ve grown in my journey as a solopreneur, I’ve learned that systems can actually become sacred when they serve your energy instead of drain it. One of my favorite sacred allies right now is ChatGPT. I know that might sound surprising and it’s true. It’s a double-edged...
It’s Not Personal
Have you ever had an experience at work that left you questioning your worth? For me, it happened recently during performance review time. I had asked a peer for feedback. We had both agreed to support one another, yet when I reached out, they declined. At first, it stung. It felt personal — like my contributions didn’t matter. But as I sat with it, I realized the truth. Their decision wasn’t...
Perfectionism Isn’t Protection—It’s a Cage
For years, I thought perfection was my safety net. If I could make something flawless before sharing it, I wouldn’t have to risk failing—or worse, being judged. But here’s the truth I’ve uncovered: perfectionism doesn’t protect us. It keeps us stuck. I used to hold back ideas, offers, even simple things like cleaning, because I couldn’t do them “perfectly.” I told myself I was just being...
Opening the Doors We’ve Kept Closed
During my recent retreat certification, I discovered that sometimes the real work isn’t about the exercises on the agenda. It’s about the doors inside us we’ve kept closed for years. I came into the retreat feeling sick and tired. At first, I didn’t know why. As the days unfolded, it became clear. I had been carrying intimacy wounds that I had hidden away for most of my life. And when you keep...