When my father left, I saw my mother’s life unravel. She had relied on him for everything—emotionally, financially, structurally. And when he was gone, so was her sense of self. She was angry. She was depressed. And we were in a dire situation.

As a young girl, watching her struggle deeply shaped my beliefs.

So I made a vow:
Never depend on a man for your survival.

I carried that vow like armor for years.
It gave me strength, independence, and a drive to succeed.
But it also led me down a path that lacked support, balance, and nourishment.

Fast forward—I found myself in a marriage where I had exactly what I thought I wanted: total independence. My husband was barely around, and I raised our daughter mostly on my own. I was solely responsible for our financial well-being.
And one day, it hit me like a lightning bolt:
I created this.

I had built a life based on fear of what I didn’t want.
Not on a vision of what I did want.

That realization changed everything.

It didn’t save the marriage—but it saved me.

I began to shift my thoughts and focus. I reconnected with my true desires—not the ones shaped by past pain or survival instincts, but by my soul. I asked myself:
💫 What do I really want?
💫 What does a life rooted in love and partnership feel like?
💫 Can I be supported and sovereign?

And little by little, I began to embody that vision.

I didn’t just change my mindset—I set clear intentions. And intention is the spark that activates transformation.

Today, I’m in a marriage where we share responsibilities, adventures, and laughter. I still have my independence—but now it exists within a partnership of trust, love, and mutual support. It’s not built from the wounds of the past, but from the intentions I set for my future.

That’s what authenticity looks like for me.
Being able to show up fully, honestly, and joyfully—without hiding, hustling, or holding on to old patterns.

And I believe this is possible for you, too.

✨ The Journey Back to Your Authentic Self Begins with Intention

If you’ve been living by someone else’s rules…
If you’ve outgrown the vows you made to protect yourself…
If you feel like you’ve forgotten who you really are beneath all the roles you play…

It’s time to come back to you.

Let’s do it together—with intention, reflection, and a bit of sacred ritual.  Join me for the next New Moon Tea Ceremony.  We’ll sip tea, drop into stillness, and set intentions for the life you truly desire. You don’t have to do this alone.